Why do you need to be in a "Giving Mood" to give back?

As I've stated in previous posts, I will be donating half of my commission (which is 30%) for each purchase, to the Toys for Tots foundation. That will be for this holiday season. And for some reason this still isn't inspiring people to help give a child a better Christmas! I guess maybe some people are too, cynical, or maybe they don't believe in the good in humanity anymore. This saddens me greatly. Because I am one of those genuine people who says what I mean, and means what I say. I don't bullshit people, I don't tell story's, and I don't tolerate bullshit. Apparently this is why I have so few friends! Which is actually fine by me because I prefer Quality friends, over a quantity of friends! Simply put, I want real, not fake. I respect others as I would want to be respected. And after all the crap I've been through in my life, from being molested as a baby, before I could even walk, by my birth parents, to being thrown in foster care, to being adopted, and beaten and then molested and raped by my adopted parents, to being thrown back into foster care, then having an ex try to sell me to some random guy on the street for money, to being beaten by an ex, having children young, and then most recently being attacked in my own vehicle by a man bent on hurting me or my children to get money, I'm still here people! I'm still standing strong, looking for the good in people. Hoping that I'm not the only one left. Through all this crap I've been through, I've never thought about suicide, or taking drugs, or any bullshit like that! I've earned a degree in Paralegal Studies, and one in Business Administration, and gained a lot of knowledge, as well as student loans, and still I'm here trying to do good in this world. But I'm finding that the good in people is hidden so deep they don't know how to bring it out anymore. They've been cynical, and doubtful so long, that they have forgotten how to believe in the good in others, they've forgotten how to look at someone without judging them by the clothes they wear, or what kind of car they drive. They see skin color as a barrier, instead of seeing a person. They see a person that could hurt them, instead of seeing the possibility of friendship. Now I'm wary of people. I learned a long time ago to trust my gut instinct. With all the crap I went through, I had to trust myself, and what I felt around people. If I got bad vibes, then I stayed away. Sometimes though, you just have to push through. But not everyone is willing to let go. To let go of their past so that they can begin to see their future clearly. And here I am talking about my past, because well, it's my past, it may have helped shape me into the person I am, but it in no way defines me, or my future. I help anyone I can. I see the good in people until they show me the bad, unless I get bad vibes. And you know what I'm talking about, that feeling of uneasiness you get when you are around a person, who doesn't care about anyone but themselves, who isn't in anything unless it solely benefits them, the person who does more harm then good in every situation, because they dont' care, the person who hurts people without a second thought, and then leaves them there after blaming them for what this person did. They are the people who leave you wondering what is this world coming to?!
So why did I tell you all this? Why did I divulge information about my past? Because one....it doesn't bother me to talk about it anymore. Granted I didn't go into detail, because well, if someone actually gave a shit, if they genuinely cared, they would have asked about my life. But the reality is no one cares. And giving freely of information of my past, can be "juicy gossip" for people, but the truth is I don't care if people talk about me. WHY? Because people talk about other people everyday. And that's a reality. They need to talk about someone else so that their problems can be avoided for a little while. And the second reason I talked a little about my past is because I want people to understand, that if I can go through all the crap I went through and still see good in people, still want to help others that need it, WHY CAN'T YOU??? Maybe you can, and maybe it's just that you don't want to help anyone. I don't know. But why wouldn't you? WHY wouldn't you help a child get a better Christmas? Maybe it's because you don't want to put any money in my pocket? Or maybe you find it better to just donate to Toys for Tots in person. But I don't think that's the reason. I'm challenging anyone who ACTUALLY reads this, to buy 1 candle, and wait for proof that I actually did donate a toy to the Toys for Tots Foundation! I will post pictures. I'm still holding onto the hope, the faith that there is still good people out there and that someone will be in a "giving mood" and actually take me up on my challenge. But the realist in me is trying to get me to doubt that there is any good left in humanity. Because why do you have to be in a "giving mood" to actually give? Why can't you just give for the sake of someone else? Why can't you just do it because they need it? Or because it will make another person smile? Before I post the link to my website, again I'll ask, if I can give just because I want to genuinely help, WHY CAN'T YOU???

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Half of my commission goes to buy an awesome toy to donate to Toys for Tots!

That's right half of my 30% commission on each purchase will go to buy then donate a toy to the Toys for Tots foundation! NO LIE!!! So the bigger your purchase the bigger the toy I buy then donate to Toys for Tots will be! So lets help make Christmas wonderful for all the children whose parents aren't able! I remember when I was being helped when I wasn't able to give my kids a Christmas, so I want to give back, and I'm hoping there may still be some kind people out there that want to help others more then themselves! So what do you say? Will you help me help the kids whose parents aren't able to give their children a Christmas? Or are you the selfish type???

I guess I'll find out soon enough huh!

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Gift the gift that gives back!

A portion of my commission (which is 30%, so I'm donating 10%) will go to buy and donate toys to the Toys for Tots foundation. So every purchase made, will help a child in need, and give them an awesome Christmas! So follow my link, make a few purchases, because while you give someone the gift of a Jewelry in Candles Candle, you'll also give a child a reason to smile by giving them something to open on Christmas Day!

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Help give a child a Christmas they deserve!

Jewelry in Candles

Where deliciously scented candles and stunningly gorgeous jewelry meet, to create one amazing gift.

A portion of each purchase made will go to buy toys to donate to Toys for Tots to help give a child the Christmas they deserve.

15% discount on all orders over $70

Each item you order comes with a piece of jewelry of your choice inside. Choose either a pair of earrings, a necklace, or a ring! (Rings are available in sizes 6-9)

Visit the website below to order:

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Trying ot make money for my kids Christmas gifts!

I've been posting links to my website in hopes that someone will help me make a little bit of money to help me get my kids Christmas gifts! But so far NO LUCK! What's up? Honestly I don't know what I'm doing wrong! The Jewelry in Candles make great gifts for anyone who loves candles and jewelry! But no one seems to be interested! It's kind of frustrating! I'm hoping that someone will be kind and buy something! So here's another link to my website! It's McAfee safe! I promise! NO scams!! This is a legitimate thing guys! So help me out would you?


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FREE??? Oh yeah! I love FREE!!!

NO FEES? Yeah right! No Startup cost? Really! No monthly quotas to make? Whatever!  All truth! At Jewelry in Candles, there are no start up cost, no registration fees, no monthly fees, no monthly quotas! Becoming a rep is absolutely free! Just click on the link, register and activate your new eStore (which is FREE) and find out how easy it can be to start making money right now! Cllick on my store link
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Sometimes you just want that clean!

And with the Clean Cotton Scented wax tarts or candles you can get just that!

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Ladies, want a little more attention from your man?

Then try my Vanilla wax tarts or Candles. Vanilla is known to be a sensual turn on for men! This is the only food type scent that most men find irresistable! So this sensual scent is sure to inspire some intimate events for you!!

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Want to indulge in your favorite things, without the guilt?

The try my Guilty Pleasures Jewelry in Candles Trio. With Chocolate fudge, Birthday Cake, and Cinnamon Buns, this trio is sure to give you a scent-gasm!

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Do you prefer the wax squares that go in the melters? AWESOME!!!

Our wax tarts work with any melter you have! And they still come with your choice of jewelry! So if you don't want tto have to burn a candle but you want the scents to fill your home, these wax tarts are just for you!!!


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Mmmmm....Strawberry!!

I just love the smell of Strawberries! And now you can get it any time you light this candle! Have your whole house smelling like Starwberries and Cream! YUMMY!!!

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Give the gift that will give more!

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Love the smell of Baby powder, but hate the mess?

Well At Jewelry in Candles, we can solve your problem! With our Baby Powder scented candle! Let this candles smell take you back to when your kids were babies, and they all smelled like baby powder! When you light this candle its sure to bring up those happy memories.

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Need a day at the spa, but don't have the time, or can't afford it?

Then my Tranquility collection Jewelry in Candles set is perfect for you. With soothing Lavender, Sweet Vanilla, and our special blended scents of our Day at the Spa Candles are a relaxing combination to ease the nerves and give you the relaxation you need. Just add a hot shower or bubble bath, and you'll be right as rain! Know someone who would enjoy this just as much as you? Give them the gift of relaxation today! Click the link below and you can get a 20% discount by entering the one time use code "shopwithme" in at the checkout!




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The first 5 people who order from my site I will give a 20% discount to! Just email me and I'll give you the coupon code to get a 20% discount! But it only works one time! So hurry and get your orders in!

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Gentlemen...Can't decide what to give the lucky lady in your life?

Why not give her a unique gift? Jewelry in Candles is just that gift. With lucious scents and jewelry in every candle there's no reason not to give her something that will place that thousand watt smile on her face! And if you can't decide on a scent that you think she'll like, choose three different ones! Each one will have a gorgeous piece of jewelry in it! You can even choose a different piece of jewelry in each candle! A pair of earrings? Why not. A beautiful necklace? Sure! How about a ring? Of course! (just be sure to select her ring size!) And with the trio you can save money! So why not give her a gift that will have her smiling every time she lights the candle, or wears that piece of jewelry!

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Two Gifts in ONE??? WHAAAAAT?? WOW

Yes that's right. Two gifts in one! Because Jewelry in Candles doesn't just sell ordinary scented candles! NO!! They sell amazingly scented candles with gorgeously stunning jewelry of your choice inside each candle! So when you give one of these unique candles to someone, you aren't just giving them the gift of a long burning, (100-150 hours) amazingly scented candle, but a reason to think of you every time they put on the piece of jewelry that came with the candle!! So why not make someone's day and give the gift of Jewelry in Candles today?

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Pumpkin pie? Nope Pumpkin Souffle!! OH YEAH!!!

You love pumpkin pie right? Maybe you're like me and like the smell but not the pie, or the hassle that it takes from making it from scratch? Then why not get one of these Pumpkin Souffle candles from Jewelry in Candles? At Jewelry in Candles they combine amazingly delectable smelling candles, with gorgeously stunning jewelry, to create a unique product that allows you to choose if you want a necklace, a pair of earrings, or even a ring, and you can select your size!! How bout that!! So go check it out! You won't regret it, and I bet if you order one, you'll make that someone special smile, because it's like getting two gifts in one! (Even if that someone special is you!!)


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MMMMM.......who's cooking Cinnamon Buns?

Wait no one's cooking? But you can have the smell of sweet sticky Cinnamon buns anytime you want?
YOU BET YOU CAN!! With this delicious smelling Cinnamon Jewelry in Candles Candle!

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And there are so many more to choose from! And the best part is you get to pick what kind of jewelry goes into your candle!

(all candles burn clean, are environmentally safe all natrual soy candles that burn for 100-150 hours! That's a lot of hours!!)

Who LOVES Birthday Cake? Then check this out!

If you love birthday cake, you'll love this candle! It smells just like you are baking a birthday cake! And the best part, (as if the smell of birthday cake wasn't enough) every candle product you order, even if it's just the wax tarts comes with jewelry inside, just for you!!!
So stop on by, pick a candle or two or three! They are cheaper when you get three or more! And help me give my kids a better Christmas, and all the things they need.


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NEW!! Gift idea, special gifts! (I'm trying to help my family supplement our income)

Hey all, it's getting to be that time of year again. You know the time where kids ask for every toy they see of TV and all the electronics they see advertised, or that they know their friends have. And in this time we do what we can to give our children the best Christmas possible. So that is what I am trying to do here. I've started up a business that may help me supplement my families income to help with normal expenses (because having 6 kids and only one working parent is really getting rough.) and even help with Christmas for my kids. If I can make enough money!
Last year my children received toys and clothes that were given to us by helpful strangers. I was very blessed last year to have people help me give my children a decent Christmas. And again this year my family is trying to give our children a good Christmas, not just an okay one. Yes I understand that my family is blessed to have each other, but if you have children, and you have ever had to see that sad, look, the tears and the hurt of waking up on Christmas day thinking that Santa must have come last night, even though there weren't any presents anywhere near the small tree that was in the corner of the dining room next to the table, only to find that there is only one present for you, and not the five things you asked Santa for.

You see, my children get to write a list of five and only FIVE things that they would like most for Christmas, and none of them can be electronics. So when you see the hurt in your children's eyes (even though we told them Santa didn't have a lot of money but he would try his best) it hurts your heart.

The business is called Jewelry in Candles. And you pick your scented candle, then either select earrings, necklace, or ring, and if you choose ring, you can specify your ring size! Then once you get your candle, just burn the candle and out will pop your foil wrapped jewelry. This candle is safe and non toxic, made from soy, so it burns clean and has a longer burn time, and is environmentally friendly!

This is very different then any other candle out there, because although there are other companies that put jewelry in the candle (and they are more expensive too!!) we are the only company that allows you to select your ring size! So your ring fits perfectly when you get it!

It makes a perfect gift for the special someone or someone's in your life. They are beautiful, and the surprise makes it all the better.

So if you would, please click on the link, it is McAfee safe and secure, and browse my selection, and maybe if you want to help my help my family, you can order something!

Thanks so much!!

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Valuable lesson!

So tonight I learned a valuable lesson. No seriously I did.....

Tonight I learned what NOT to do.

Do not EVER ask a serious question, one that you really want a serious answer to, yeah that kind, don't ask a drunk person to answer a serious question. A serious question, one where the answer means a lot to you, is not something that you should ever ask a drunk person, or even a person that has had even one more drink then you have. And here are a few reasons why:

#1 You will never get an actual answer. The conversation will start to delve into things that should never be talked about or old shit that should never be brought back up.

#2 The conversation will last a good 3 hours, and again nothing will come of it, especially not an answer to the only question you asked.

#3 When the conversation does end, it will not end on a good note, nor will you have an answer to your question. You'll have talked about everything that has ever happened between you two, everything that they think you have done wrong, and no matter how many times you try to go back to the original topic, you'll fail.

#4 Here's the kicker, the person will not remember anything they have said or done, and can reserve the right to be pissed off for no apparent reason whatsoever.

I really learned something tonight guys. Now normally I stay away from serious topics with people who drink. I have about 1 or 2, when I do actually go out. And tonight was no different, I had a total of 2, yes TWO drinks, and they spanned about 3 hours apart. So I wasn't drunk when I made the mistake of asking my B/F a serious question. And I even tried to end the conversation several times. I apologized for making the mistake of asking him a serious question, while I was sober, and he was drunk. But that did no good. Needless to say, I will probably never get the answer to my question because I won't be asking him anything like that again! LOL

So moral of the story, don't be the sober one, apparantly drunk people have more fun, and they never remember SHIT!! LOL Have a great one people!

P.S. please drink responsibily! :)